Which guideline helps ensure a child can tell their story in their own words?

• A. Ask the child to repeat details until they agree
• B. Let the child set the pace and use language that is comfortable to them
• C. Use technical terms to describe signs
• D. Interrupt to correct statements

Answer: (B)

Letting the child set the pace and use language that feels comfortable to them lets them tell their story in their own words. When they lead, they choose the details, the order, and the words that matter to them, which yields a more authentic and accurate account of what happened. This approach also reduces pressure and anxiety, helping the child stay engaged and speak more freely.

Other methods tend to shape or interrupt the child’s voice. Asking them to repeat details until they agree can push them to conform or alter memories. Using technical terms can create a disconnect between the child’s understanding and the language used. Interrupting to correct statements disrupts the flow and may cause the child to shut down or change what they’re trying to share. If you need to clarify, gently reflect back in their own words and ask open-ended questions to invite more detail.